Setting up a

I clicked on the only PayPal option (Recommended) but I here that instant payments are trouble because they don’t have to contact you first. Do I still do that one? And do I put my PayPal address in the blank spot?

go to PayPal, you can make preference changes there.

Why would they have to contact you first?

What I’ve read just says that if they have an option to just buy without contacting you that you get a lot more kids buying with there parents PayPal.