My baby is creepy?

I have had lots of people in and out, so I’ve been happily chatting about my new hobby, even bringing Megan down to show people… but they are freaked out by her. One person said she was “creepy.” A couple of others held her then quickly gave her back saying that it was weird that she looked so real… On a brighter note, one lady supervises a hospital and was interested in checking into ordering some for her dementia patients… I wasn’t planning on selling them, but okay, maybe a few to offset my expenses won’t hurt.

I don’t get it. Instead of a flat canvas, we work on 3D vinyl. What is so weird or “creepy” about this? How do you respond to this?

P.s. Glad to be back. Missed all of the dolly chit chat… :slight_smile:

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Ugh I hate it when I get that response. It hurts my feelings.

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I just take creepy as a compliment and move on !! :blush:

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I find either people love my babies or are completely creeped out. Lol. Oh well, to each his own.

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I take it as a compliment. Creepy to me means I did good and my dolls look real.

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You know what, @Kate, in some weird way it did, but I don’t understand why. I’m not overly sensitive, but was really taken aback by these responses… It’s like here I am happy for once, proud of what I’ve learned so far, but what is making me so happy is creepy and weird??? :confused:

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It’s all in the perception.:blush::blush::blush:

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It’s not because the dolls are creepy. There is just a factor that effects some people. When something gets too close to reality it effects people negatively. Consider it a compliment. Your dolls look real!

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You will get used to it!!! We tend to build a thick skin!

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I think some people’s brains are not able to interpret it as what it is: 3D artwork that is intended to look as realistic as possible. Other people automatically see a beautiful replica of an infant when they see them, and there’s nothing negative about it to them. To me, babies are beautiful and so seeing a realistic reborn or making one as realistic as I can is a beautiful thing. I think people get weirded out that it’s not alive and it’s a doll, and so they think for some reason it shouldn’t look so real. One of my aunts used to say that my dolls freaked her out, but more recently she’s come around to actually finding them interesting, and often likes my work now. Some people may see them in a more positive light once they’ve been “broken in” to the concept.

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Creepy is a compliment and the best you can get!! It is genuine. Creepy means that you made an uncanny replica of an actual baby.

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It’s called the “Uncanny Valley”. Lots of information about this-----you can look it up if anyone is interested.

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I was just reading about that today!

Madame Tussaud’s is super popular though lol so I don’t see why reborns are put in such a negative light! :laughing:

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That is so true Izzy-----and those things are REALLY real looking, our poor little babies get a bad rap!!

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Just looked up “uncanny valley” and I guess this is really a thing. Never heard of it, so I was completely unprepared for the negativity.

Okay, so I guess I’ll just be the weird lady with all of her creepy dolls.

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Thanks, Lynn, for giving the name of this, ahem, interesting phenomenon. :smile:

Found a video that explains it too:

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It seems that some people have a deeper reaction in the Uncanny Valley than others do.

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You’re very welcome, glad to be of service!!

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Yes, creepy is a word we hear sometimes. Just try not to let it bother you. Dolls have the ability to cause all sorts of reactions in people. Why else are horror movies with doll characters so popular? They speak to something deep in us and some people have had bad experiences, but fortunately most have had good experiences.

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Is this a tv show? :thinking: