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Oh my gosh, that work is AMAZING. Amazing. I just…there are no words. That is absolutely beautiful.
I actually think reborns help special needs people in general and I agree there should be a market! We all already know about the UK work with Alzheimers patients, and I have another little story about reborns and special needs, I’ll be quick about it…
My son, age 10, is autistic and intellectually delayed. Obviously he isn’t great with people but the day I brought a reborn home he was IN LOVE. He picked her up, kissed her over and over and asked me why the baby wasn’t moving, etc. I explained to him that it was a doll and he said he understood but then he’d ask questions like “Why doesn’t she open her eyes?” Then he asked her name and I said Kaya and he told Kaya “I love you” and he wouldn’t put her down.
When I got my first Leah he was the same way. Today he has one of my babies that I knew I couldn’t sell and he brings her over for me to kiss, etc. He will ask me if she’s cold, things like that, if she needs a blanket.
Here is Colin with my first Leah:
I don’t know why his eyes look so crazed in that pic, LOL, he looks a little maniacal or maybe it’s just my poor camera skills…
Anyway, since “taking care of” the babies he “takes care of” his brother quite a bit now…they still bicker a lot (Colin is very very overly sensitive to sounds, etc. and of course Evan, being a 7-year-old boy, is full of sounds, LOL), Colin will do things like bring Evan a snack when he gets a snack, tell Evan “it’s time to brush your teeth!” and so on.
I feel like he’s learned some compassion and caretaking and I love it. <3
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Oh my goodness. That sounds exactly like my own son (minus the younger brother). It’s so nice to know that someone else has had a similar experience to ours. I’m currently working on a special baby for my son (one that will have his own ‘first hair-cut’ hair just because one of his sensory tics is repeatedly running his hands though his hair). I do think reborns can be very helpful in the ways that you mentioned (although I must admit, giving in to getting a puppy surprisingly turned out not to be such a bad idea, either!)